Pain won't let me sleep
Chronic pain that fragments sleep and worsens through the night.
Overview
Common Causes
- Chronic pain conditions — arthritis, fibromyalgia, neuropathy, back pain — that intensify at night.
- Pain-driven micro-arousals that fragment sleep architecture without full waking.
- Inability to find a comfortable position, leading to frequent turning.
- Poor sleep lowering pain tolerance and amplifying the next day's pain.
- Pain medications that may disrupt sleep architecture.
What You May Be Experiencing
- Difficulty falling asleep due to pain.
- Frequent night waking from pain or the need to shift position.
- Unrefreshing sleep and daytime fatigue.
- Pain that feels worse after a poor night, in a self-reinforcing cycle.
- Reduced function and mood from the combination of pain and sleep loss.
Dr. Morse's Approach
Treatment Options
CBT-I adapted for chronic pain; sleep positioning; and pacing activity through the day.
A supportive mattress and pillows, temperature comfort, and a calming wind-down.
Optimized pain management in partnership with treating clinicians; sleep support when appropriate.
Your Night-time Routine
A practical, step-by-step wind-down built around this concern's specific drivers. Follow it consistently for two to three weeks — rhythm, not perfection, is what resets sleep.
- 17:00 PM
Gentle stretching or heat therapy to ease pain before bed.
- 28:00 PM
Take pain medication as prescribed and timed to support overnight comfort.
- 38:30 PM
A calming wind-down; optimize positioning with pillows for your specific pain area.
- 49:30 PM
Lights out; if pain wakes you, a brief repositioning or comfort measure, then return to sleep.
- 5Daytime
Protect consistent sleep and gentle activity — both reduce pain and improve sleep over time.
Take this guide home
A printable PDF of this concern's full overview, routine, and treatment options.
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